Sometimes you might decide to invite someone else into your bedroom for a threesome experience. The problem is that you might not be sure who you should invite. At this point you should be careful because there are some people that you can invite and they may end up disappointing you. You should sit down and base your arguments on facts which will lead you into choosing the best third party. Here are tips for you to choose the right person into your threesome encounter
Choose a person that you are all attracted to
Threesomes will only work after you choose someone that you will all be attracted to. Before you decide to invite anyone to your bed, try to carry out prior research and know whether you are choosing the right person. You should take the opinions of each of you into consideration before you decide to call the person.
Check on your mental attraction
For anybody that you invite into your bedroom to easily fit in your threesome party, you should have mental attraction towards the person. You should take time and talk to the person before inviting him or her to your bedroom. In case you have the same field of thought, then that is the right party for you to invite.
Mature emotion intelligence
The person should be ready to express his or her feelings and be ready to excuse themselves whenever need arises. The person should be ready to express his or her feelings in such a way he will not make one of you uncomfortable. There should be always constructive discussion during the encounter. A close friend often makes a good choice for a third.
The person should respect your relationship
Even if you are inviting the person for you to form a Threesome, you still have a relationship with your partner and he or she should be ready to respect it at all times.
The person should practice safer sex
For the relationship to work well, the person that you will invite should be ready to practice safer sex. There are different risks in sex, failure to practice safer sex might have you regretting the encounter with the person. First take your time and assess whether the person is responsible during sex.
Sexual intelligence in the person
The person should have sex intelligence where he or she is ready to talk about different types of sex and practice them. This will easily lead you to enjoy your group sex. The main reason of starting a threesome is to try and explore new adventures in sex, the person that you should invite should be well informed about different sexual encounters that will make your threesome enjoyable.
The person should understand what you want
There are some goals you will like to achieve in your sexual revolution. You may like to have a situation where the person that you will invite will help one of you who has low sex drive to satisfy the other. The person should know that and be ready to play the part. You can easily make the person know about your goals by talking to the person prior to starting your sexual encounter.