The swinging lifestyle does not end up only with swapping partners and making love with other partners but it also needs to build an environment of care and warmth for others. You can be a better swinger if you are thoughtful for other swingers as well as your partner and care for hygiene. Some tips are provided here under to make you a better swinger.
Care For Other Swinger Couples in Bed:
When you are at a swinger party with some other person or another couple for a threesome then along with enjoying chatting, eating and drinking with them you should build a friendly environment so that you can have fun later on. You should not be rude or rough in making a relationship with other swingers as their relationship with existing partners is transparent and open. So you should have fun in a friendly environment. Sexual relationships are prominent among swingers but still there exists an emotional attachment between the partners. You can strengthen your sexual relationship with others only by honoring their concern for their partners as well as yours.
Improving Relationships with Other Swingers:
It is believed that jealousy is not an issue among swingers as they consider making love by encouraging fantasies as the prime goal of their life. There are lesser chances of infidelity among swingers as they make physical relationship with others with the consent of their life partner. But still some swingers object to the interference of others on the basis of their faith on their partner and for that reason they do not justify to go to some private clubs or homes for sexual activities. Some others are of the view that the sanctity of their personal relationship is not destroyed even after making sexual relationship with others. So you should honor the thoughts of others regarding a swinging lifestyle while making swinging relationship with their partners.
Hygienic Carefulness:
The main purpose of your becoming a swinger should be to improve your relationship with others instead of rebuilding or repairing it. You should take care of your hygiene while preparing to visit any venue for having different sexual experience through some new receptive couple. Many swinger couples, who have enjoyed a lot with you in last meeting at some swinger party, can get emotionally and physically reconnected with you only if you are hygienically safe and well maintained.
Honesty in relationship:
You can be a better swinger only if you are honest with your relationship and improve your sexual skills as a swinging relationship is based on the variety of sexual adventure and fantasies you can provide to your sex partner without any dishonesty and privacy during such meetings. If you want to cheat on your partner then you should not join swinging community.
In closing, you can be a better swinger if you respect the feelings and thoughts of other couples and your sex partner as it will prolong your relationship for long time.