It's important to remember that not everyone is open to the idea of swinging, and it's important to approach the topic with sensitivity and respect for the other person's boundaries. Here are a few suggestions for how to bring up the topic:
Be honest: It's important to be upfront and honest about your lifestyle. Explain that you are a swinger and that you would like to hang out with them in that context.
Be respectful: Regardless of their response, it's important to respect their decision. Remember that not everyone may be open to the idea and that's okay.
Be open to conversation: Encourage open dialogue and answer any questions they may have in a respectful and understanding way.
Be aware of laws and regulations: Make sure you are aware of the laws and regulations of your country and state.
Be aware of the person's reaction: Be aware of the person's reaction and respect it. It's not a good idea to insist or be pushy about it.
Saying something like "I understand if this isn't your thing, but I wanted to be upfront with you and let you know that I am a swinger and I would like to hang out with you in that context if you're open to it."
It's important to remember that not everyone is open to the idea of swinging, and it's important to approach the topic with sensitivity and respect for the other person's boundaries.